I’m self medicating

I haven’t heard of this being covered by Obamacare or other insurance so I’m self medicating:

Sleeping with more than 20 women protects men against prostate cancer, a study has suggested.

Men who had slept with more than 20 women lowered their risk of developing cancer by almost one third, and were 19 per cent less likely to develop the most aggressive form.

In contrast, men who slept with 20 men doubled their risk of developing prostate cancer compared with men who have never had sex with another man.

Researchers at the University of Montreal believe that intercourse protects men, and men who are more promiscuous have more sex than those in monogamous relationships.

The evidence just keeps increasing that there are significant health benefits to having a lot of sex.

Implications for swingers?

There is no mention of study results for humans but this could have lots of implications for people in the lifestyle.

Can Previous Mating Partners Influence The Traits Of Future Offspring?:

Perhaps not surprisingly, DNA paternity analyses confirmed that the most recent male partner had indeed sired the offspring in the vast majority of cases. However, the scientists also found that the size of the offspring was strongly related to the size of the female’s first mating partner. At the same time, offspring size was unrelated to the size of the most recent partner, even in cases where there was definitive evidence that the most recent partner was the father. That’s right—the young flies tended to look more like mom’s first mate than they did their dads.

Smaller house party

Jo and I have attended several large house parties in the last year. These probably have about 30 to 50 people. It’s not what I really think of as a house party. They are more like a party house that doesn’t want to get the license and zoning for a business.

Last night we went to what I think of as a true house party. There were about 15 people there. We were a little awkward with things at first. We only knew the host and hostess before we arrived. The dynamics are different at different locations too. There was a significant shortage of men that might be of interest to Jo as well. There was one couple that my ex and I had dinner with at the usual club once. I recognized them and they were thrilled to be recognized but they didn’t remember me. The woman was very interested in me and kissed me several times. But I could tell Jo wasn’t feeling the attraction and so I didn’t pursue that opportunity as vigorously as I could have.

As we were talking to people and trying to figure things out the kitchen area rapidly emptied until we were almost the only ones left. What was happening?

There were several men interested in Jo and asked her to play but she turned them all down. We got some private time and talked about things some. There was one guy, Trevor, she was sort of interested in. His wife, Kathleen, was a good match for me too. But they had disappeared someplace. We wandered off, found an empty bed, and played with each other for a while but I could tell Jo wasn’t really getting turned on for some reason. I stopped, we talked for a while, then went looking for people again.

We found a bunch of people in the garage. That was another social area where smoking was permitted. There wasn’t much smoking going on so we didn’t find the smoke an issue like we normally would in a smoke filled room.

Jo and I sat in the garage sitting around talking with a bunch of other people for maybe 15 minutes. She then told me she was going to get a drink but I should stay for a while. “Don’t just follow me out.” I’m not sure if there was some discussion that I didn’t know about but a couple minutes later Kathleen came in and sat down next to me and started talking. We had a nice conversation then Jo came back and started chatting. Then Trevor came in and sat down and chatted with us. It wasn’t long before Kathleen started asking if Jo and I played with others or just each other, and what our rules were. Within a minute or two she asked if we would like to play with them. Jo and I looked at each other, said a couple of words and off we went.

Jo was quite pleased with Trevor as a playmate. Kathleen was very nice for me too. After Kathleen and I were finished we talked for  while then wandered off to the kitchen while Jo and Trevor were still busy. We got snacks and something to eat then I told her I was going back to watch Jo and Trevor. I watched them have sex for a while and after they finished I “had my way” with Jo.

It was late, after midnight, so we drove home, went to bed, and had sex again. Then again this morning.

After we had time to think about what we experienced we realized what the dynamic was that made things different for us. At this party, a very select group of people, if you talked to someone for more than a minute or two it meant you were interested in having sex with them. The people at this party “didn’t waste time”. As soon as the doors were closed at 8:30 people started filling up the beds. Things happened very fast. We were a little bit left out at first because we were moving at a much slower pace than the rest of these very experienced swingers.