After a couple years in my first two marriages I felt like I was suffocating. I  HAD to have some other partners. They were both good  husbands and lovers. I just needed more. This gives me that opportunity.

Sharon
Member of a swingers club.
November, 1999

I really liked Sharon and over the decade or so that I knew her spent a lot of time talking to her yet I only had sex with her twice. She had a lot insight into herself and her relationships. The club felt like home to her. It was place where she could relax and be herself. Outside the club she always had to be “on guard” to put up the front of what people expected her to be rather than who she was.