Last night we visited Calvin & Jerri. We picked up a large pizza on the way to their house. They supplied a salad, vegetables, and something to drink. We sat on the couch together, ate our food, and watched a football game as we cuddled with someone else\u2019s spouse. At half-time we put away the food and cleaned up. After the game was over we went into the bedroom and had sex with them. When we got home we had sex with each other.<\/p>\n
It was all just so\u2026 comfortable. No stress about making a nice dinner and entertaining to make an impression. There was no tension between them. No tension between us. No tension about the possibility of being left out. No tension about being stuck with someone you really didn\u2019t want to be with. No tension about \u201cAre they just stringing us along as a backup plan if they can\u2019t find someone else?\u201d No tension about is someone going to try and have sex without a condom. No tension about someone doing something that their partner didn\u2019t want to do.<\/p>\n
We\u2019ve known them for nearly four years. It makes a difference.<\/p>\n
It was just really, really nice. As we drove away we talked about it. \u201cThat\u2019s the way it should be all the time”, we concluded.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Last night we visited Calvin & Jerri. We picked up a large pizza on the way to their house. They supplied a salad, vegetables, and something to drink. We sat on the couch together, ate our food, and watched a … Continue reading