Jo and I went to a \u201chouse party\u201d last weekend. It wasn\u2019t what we really think of as a house party. There were probably 30 or 40 couples at a large house rented for the weekend. It was a very nice facility and we enjoyed hanging out in the sun next to the river.<\/p>\n
Due to various circumstances we drove separate cars and arrived at the same time. We hung out, visited with people, and ate dinner. Jo didn\u2019t see anyone of interest. And the one woman that drank too much and vomited on the living room carpet was a real mood killer. Her date should have taken her home as soon as it was clear she had way too much to drink which was long before she vomited.<\/p>\n
We chatted quite a while with Jack and Danielle<\/a> who put on their own house parties which Jo and I really like. We all agreed the planners for this party didn\u2019t do all that great of a job. It was too small to be a party where everyone could find a good match and there was no vetting of those who attended to make sure they were \u201call on the same level\u201d as Jack put it. At their parties everyone is very \u201cfrisky\u201d as Jo puts it. As soon as everyone is at the party and the doors are locked people pair off (or join a group) and start having sex. There is virtually no hesitation. Everyone has been in the lifestyle for many years, all are about the same age, all are in decent physical condition, and we all know what we are there for.\u00a0 It\u2019s a very advanced \u201clevel\u201d. This party had a wide range of \u201clevels\u201d in all dimensions and it was tough get a good match.<\/p>\n But there were a couple women I was interested in who also showed an interest in me. After we had been there four or five hours Jo decided to go home and told me to stay and see if I could play on my own. Jo really did seem okay with it so I stayed and played with one of the woman.<\/p>\n Jo had some errands to run and we ended up getting home at almost the same time. She asked how things went and said this was breaking new ground for her. She felt entirely comfortable with it. Nice.<\/p>\n She did add that she probably would need to attend the party and see who I was playing with. Just going to a party by myself while she was at home probably wouldn\u2019t work out well. I would much rather she go with me anyway and I doubt I would be interested in leaving her at home to go play on my own. But it\u2019s good to know that she is comfortable with me playing with someone at a party even if she doesn\u2019t see anyone of interest to her.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Jo and I went to a \u201chouse party\u201d last weekend. It wasn\u2019t what we really think of as a house party. There were probably 30 or 40 couples at a large house rented for the weekend. It was a very … Continue reading