{"id":531,"date":"2017-04-15T16:13:48","date_gmt":"2017-04-15T23:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/?p=531"},"modified":"2018-06-10T17:35:17","modified_gmt":"2018-06-11T00:35:17","slug":"men-who-fantasize-about-their-wives-with-another-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/?p=531","title":{"rendered":"Men who fantasize about their wives with another man"},"content":{"rendered":"

Interesting article by Justin Lehmiller:<\/a><\/p>\n

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\u201ccuckold porn\u201d is second only to \u201cyouth\u201d in heterosexual porn searches.<\/p>\n

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From an evolutionary perspective, the idea that a guy would take pleasure from watching his wife with another man is counterintuitive. Historically, men have gone to great lengths to avoid being \u201ccuckolded,\u201d or finding their wives impregnated by someone else. Not only does cuckoldry limit men\u2019s ability to \u201cspread their seed,\u201d but it forces them to expend scarce resources raising someone else\u2019s kids. The fear of cuckoldry is thought to be a key factor that shaped how our male ancestors approached sexual relationships and, to this day, is considered by many scientists to be the reason men tend to get more jealous (often violently so) about their partners\u2019 sexual infidelity than women.<\/p>\n

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Increasingly, scientists favor a biological explanation based on a growing body of work on sperm competition. Research shows that when one woman mates with several men, those men can display behavioral and biological changes intended to increase their likelihood of fertilizing her egg\u2014without even realizing it. For example, when men masturbate to porn featuring multiple men having sex with the same woman, their ejaculate contains more active sperm than it does when they beat off to an all-female threesome, according to a 2005 study of 52 men. Other research has found that men report thrusting faster and deeper during sex when they suspect their female partner has cheated, presumably as a way of displacing rival sperm. These findings suggest the provocative possibility that men are \u201cwired\u201d to find cuckold scenarios arousing because they promote behaviors that help their own sperm win a raging intra-vaginal sperm war.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I don\u2019t have a better explanation than the hypothesizes in the article or above but I know something is going on with me.<\/p>\n

An example. Jo and I were at Club Topaz last night. I played with Miriam while her husband,  Mitch, was with Racheal (Jo was with Racheal\u2019s friend Lane). After Miriam, Mitch, Racheal, and I were done Miriam and Mitch left. Racheal and I cuddled while watching Jo and Lane. We cuddled and petted for a long time before finally having sex with each other. Watching Jo with another guy and knowing Racheal had been having sex with another guy shortly before me was very arousing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Interesting article by Justin Lehmiller: \u201ccuckold porn\u201d is second only to \u201cyouth\u201d in heterosexual porn searches. \u2026 From an evolutionary perspective, the idea that a guy would take pleasure from watching his wife with another man is counterintuitive. Historically, men … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[5,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-531","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-party-report","category-psychology"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4jnrr-8z","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/531","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=531"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/531\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":537,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/531\/revisions\/537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}