{"id":365,"date":"2015-03-25T12:03:41","date_gmt":"2015-03-25T19:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/?p=365"},"modified":"2017-08-06T17:47:06","modified_gmt":"2017-08-07T00:47:06","slug":"helen-fisher-why-we-love-why-we-cheat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/?p=365","title":{"rendered":"Helen Fisher: Why we love, why we cheat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This TED talk may help explain why the lifestyle is so appealing to us:<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/x-ewvCNguug\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"420\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The take away quote is:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Millions of years ago, we evolved three basic drives: a sex drive, romantic love, and attachment to a long-term partner. These circuits are deeply embedded in the human brain.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>These are independent drives. They are complimentary and at times contradictory. I find it may just explain a lot of things.<\/p>\n<p>I found this via <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lehmiller.com\/blog\/2015\/3\/20\/video-why-we-love-why-we-cheat\">Justin J. Lehmiller<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This TED talk may help explain why the lifestyle is so appealing to us: The take away quote is: Millions of years ago, we evolved three basic drives: a sex drive, romantic love, and attachment to a long-term partner. These &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/?p=365\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-365","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4jnrr-5T","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/365","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=365"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/365\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":366,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/365\/revisions\/366"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=365"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=365"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sexclubdiary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=365"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}