Creating lust

This is an interesting talk on love and lust. Probably the most interesting part to me was how to create lust in a long term relationship. It starts at 10:00 minutes into the video:

Newness, surprise, mystery, and arousal producing activities are the three keys to increasing lust. Arousal isn’t just sexual arousal. Scary movies, roller coasters, etc. also produce arousal.

Sex clubs, sex parties, and playing with other couples produce all three and enhance lust in your loving long term relationship.

H/T to Justin J Lehmiller.