Last night we went to our usual club. There wasn’t anyone on the RSVP list we were really interested in playing with. We were hoping Sean and Martha might show up but they didn’t. We talked with Janice for quite a while and ended up having dinner with her and Kim.

We discussed the volunteer appreciation party on Friday with Janice. We hadn’t really decided whether to go or not. It would be almost all volunteers we knew and very few, if any, new people there. None of the volunteers are couples that were a good match for us. She said Nick was going to be her date for the party and we should attend because they would be there. We have played with them as a couple before. And she has participated as the extra female in a FMF threesome we had once. So we agreed to attend. Jo had also contacted Alex and Alice and told them we would be at the party and would like to see them again. They RSVP’d almost immediately. So maybe something will work out for us.

From Janice we found out why Ellen wasn’t playing last week. She was having an gynecological exam the next morning. And it was Janice that Nick played with when he left the hot tub. She also said she felt a little “used” by the experience. We didn’t get details on that and don’t really know what the issue was. We suspect it was because he spent so much time with us then just wanted to play with her without the social aspect he shared with us.

And we found out from Kim why we hadn’t seen Brenda for several weeks. She is having back problems and is scheduled for surgery soon.

After diner we sat in the hot tub with Gretchen and Steve and talked for a while. They had to work (massage) and even if they were interested in playing with us it would be very late before they would be available. I didn’t even ask. I have told her many times to let me know when they want to play with us. She gave me a kiss as they got up to go to work.

A young couple joined us and we talked with them for a while. They are much too young for a good match but we talked to them for a bit. Just general chit-chat.

We decided to play with each other and went to the showers to wash off the hot tub chemicals. We saw a woman kissing Gretchen in the dressing room and by the time we had prepared for going to the play area they were gone. We found them in the play area with the woman between Gretchen’s legs and Steve kissing Gretchen’s breasts. We watched for a few seconds then went on to find a place for ourselves to play. We ended up in the mirror room by ourselves. Another couple came in and lay on one of the adjoining beds. The woman asked if she could touch Jo and kissed her breasts for a while as I would performing oral and manual sex on Jo. She used her fingers on Jo for a while too and I moved out of the way to give her access. That was going okay until she kissed Jo on the mouth. Apparently her kisses involve a lot of tongue on the face and Jo motioned for me and the other woman moved away to join her male companion.

We had seen and talked to the other couple many times but physically they just weren’t a good match for us. He is too short and they are both overweight. Some brief play with the female would probably have been okay if it hadn’t been for the sloppy kissing.

We had sex with each other then left.

As we drove home Jo said it was a soul sucking experience. We spent over an hour driving and more hours at the club to do something we could have done at home. We decided to stop attending Wednesday events at that club at least until after Jo’s daughter goes to college this fall. We can stay home and visit with the kids and do other stuff around the house and have a much more rewarding experience without investing so many hours in pursuit of something that just isn’t happening for us at Wednesday parties.