I’ve been incredibly busy with things and haven’t found the time to blog about things so it’s catch up time again.

March 4^th, Jo and I visited Jeff and Mindy at their place again. We sat around and talked and drank some wine for a while then we went upstairs to separate rooms again. It’s what they like best so we can do that. We had a nice time with them. They are very pleasant to talk to and very enthusiastic about the sex.

March 14^th we went to Club Topaz for their Saint Patrick’s Day party. We saw quite a few people we knew from Club Pyrite. They appear to be migrating as Club Pyrite shuts down. We saw Kane there. He was the first guy Jo ever played (other than me) with at a sex club. He was with two women, Kasey and Ursa. Kasey was six feet tall and really caught my attention even though she was a bit on the heavy side. Ursa was very nice and showed an interest in me but she was a bit on the short side and much heavier than Kasey. I wasn’t that interested in her.

Kasey and I did a lot of flirting which developed into touching and kissing. It was interesting to me that this was her first visit to a sex club yet she was really into it. It was Uriah’s second visit and again, really enthusiastic about the club.

Jo and I were invited to play with the three of them but Jo wasn’t really interested in playing with either of the women and wasn’t sure how it could work out with two guys and three women so she told me to go have fun and she would be okay.

Kane, Kasey, Ursa and I went off to one of the orgy rooms to play. I was with Kasey and Kane was with Ursa. I was somewhat worried about Jo and even though Kasey tried hard and was very enthusiastic I didn’t cum. The four of us laid around and talked for a while then Kasey and Kane started playing and I went over to be with Ursa. Again, lots of enthusiasm from Ursa but I couldn’t really get into. After chatting a bit I excused myself to go check on Jo.

I found Jo in one of the small play rooms with Mick and Michelle. I left without her noticing me and returned to the orgy room with Kane, Kasey, and Ursa. Not too long after Jo found me and we has sex together in the orgy room.

April 18^th we went to Club Pyrite. There were a lot of people there. Something like 250. We enjoyed talking to several different couples but no one who was a good match. We ended up going into the play area together and searching for any bed space to play. We finally settled for narrow slice of a mattress in a big orgy room. It was nice watching and listening to all the other people but we didn’t stay long after we finished. There were lots of other people looking for play space too.

April 25^th we went to Club Diamond. From the RSVP list Jo knew that “the tall woman you like” was going to be there. That would be Toni. She is a 5’ 11” blonde, smart, and interesting to talk to. We had seen her there before and I had talked to her for quite a while but Jo had no interest in her husband so we didn’t pursue it. This time Jo suggested we mingle on our own then get back in touch with each other before playing with anyone.

I made a beeline for Toni and hung around for a bit as she was talking to another woman. The other woman introduced herself to me and I to her then I turned to Toni and said you’re Toni. She was surprised. She didn’t remember me at all and was impressed that I remembered her. I told her a few other things I remembered about her and her smile got bigger. She asked how I could remember all that. I told her it was because I was very interested in her. We talked for a long while and it developed into some touching and a hug. She eventually excused herself to go have a cigarette and I went to find Jo. She had been kissing Jack and Ben but things didn’t seem to develop much further. She didn’t see anyone of interest and suggested we go to Club Topaz. That was a long drive back and I kind of wanted to stay there. We agreed to stay a while longer.

I eventually asked Toni if she wanted to play with me. She told me they didn’t usually play at the club. They like to make things a little more personal, “But that might change in 30 minutes.” Jo and I wandered around and talked to some more people. Jo asked Danielle if she and Jack were interested in playing with us. I had talked to her for quite a while but it wasn’t about sex and there wasn’t any flirting going on. That might have soured it because she told Jo they didn’t think so. Finally we went into the play area when it seemed pretty clear nothing was changing with Toni.

The play area was packed. We finally put a sheet down on a thick rug and played on the floor. Jackie was on one of the beds having sex with some guy and reached out and touched me as I was taking off my clothes. I smiled and said hi. She finished went off to the bathroom while Jo and I were having sex. From the bathroom she called out to us, “That’s a party foul!” We didn’t know what she meant. She meant that having sex with your spouse was, “Against the rules.” Not really but she was teasing us.

After we finished we decided to go home. As we were drifting toward the door and saying our goodbyes Ben came up to us and suggested we stay a while longer. We declined because of the long drive home and it was getting late. He asked to stay while he went to get Jackie so she could say goodbye too. She expressed her disappointment and held up her lingerie exposing everything from just below her breasts down and asked, “Are you sure I couldn’t distract you?” I would like have liked to play with her and Jo was interested in Ben as well but it just wasn’t going to work out for us so we said goodbye and went home.

I think there was another party at Club Topaz we went to as well. But nothing much of interest happened apart from talking to some old friends.

Saturday night, Valentines Day, was a large party with several hundred people. Jo and I were pretty much wiped out by our volunteering and didn’t participate in the party. So Sunday night we attended for our own benefit.

There were perhaps 20 or 30 participants and no one of particular interest to us. We played with each other on “the perch” and watched some others having sex then went home.

Jo and I attended the Valentine’s Day party at Club Pyrite as volunteer drink servers. We arrived at 6:00 PM for the pre-event briefing. Jo had 10 tables of six people each and in a different section I had three tables of six people each. As you might imagine Jo was pretty much overwhelmed. I helped out occasionally by pouring water and once with complying with a request for a long passionate kiss from Tanya who was at one of Jo’s tables.

We were supposed to do bed monitor duty starting at 9:00 PM but the nine (!) course meal went way long and we didn’t finish with the serving of drinks until 10:00 at which time we had to start with our first shift closing duties. This entails stacking of chairs and other clean up in the dining area. It was nearly midnight when we finished and we were too tired from the stress to be interested in finding someone to play with.

I had an event to attend early the next morning about a half hour in the opposite direction from home so Jo went home alone in her car and I spent the night in the sleeping area at the club.

It has been years since I spent the entire night at the club and it was interesting to see about a third of the beds still occupied in the play area the next morning. There were a lot of cars in the parking lot too.

I also found it very interesting that the event I went to the next morning was something completely unrelated to sex and that one of the other participants was Kenny (see here for more details) who I had met at Club Pyrite many years ago.

Jeff and Mindy invited us to dinner on Saturday night. We brought a bottle of wine and sipped wine while taking and waiting for dinner to complete. They are quite pleasurable to talk to and we had a great conversation all through dinner.

After dinner they wanted to do Karaoke. They have the equipment in their living room and apparently do this frequently. Jo and I don’t do Karaoke. Any attempt to do so would have probably caused the cats to attempt fleeing the house, neighbors to call the police, and our hosts to ask us to leave.

Jeff and Mindy demonstrated they can sing without any danger of arrest or cruelty to animals and we applauded them. Mindy disappeared to change clothes and came back wearing lingerie and sang another song, announcing that, “This is the last one, because Bob and I are exiting after I finish this one.” She sang her song, received her well deserved applause and came over to me. I stood kissed her and we headed off to the bedroom. I looked behind me was we left the room and saw that Jo and Jeff were deep into a kiss of their own.

Mindy and I had a great time in bed together. Of all the different women I have had sex with, all the people I have talked about sex, and all the reading I have done I have never experiences, seen, or heard of something Mindy had done. She had put powdered sugar on her genitals! When I went down on her it was very sweet. This was dessert.

Jo and Jeff were in a different bedroom but probably an hour after we departed the living room they joined us in the room Mindy and I were in. We all lay around in bed talking and cuddling for another hour or so before we Jo and I went home, then had sex again as Jo told me the details of her sex with Jeff. We went to sleep and then had sex again the next morning.

Last night Jo invited her brother, Nash, to the club with us. She told him about the club over a year ago and he expressed a lot of interest but always had reasons why he couldn’t go. He got most of the issues straightened out and attended the Wednesday party which has a lot of single women attending.

We haven’t gotten a detailed report yet but I expect he thought it was almost magical.

We went through orientation with him and three other singles. Two women and another guy. We went over the rules, toured the play areas, and discussed various scenarios to illustrate the rules.

Then we had dinner together with Kim, Janice, and another couple Janice knew. The conversation was sometimes sexually explicit and as the amateur strip contest proceeded women presented various body parts to him and invited touching by Jo and I just inches from Nash.

After the strip contest Jo and I danced for a while then started talking with another couple and eventually went to sit in the hot tub with them. The last we saw of Nash was he was dancing with one of the women we went through orientation with.

Jo and I ended up just playing with each other then going home but looked for Nash and couldn’t find him anywhere. His locker still had his contents in it and since he had his own car we just left without getting an update.

Jo later received a text message saying he had a wonderful time, was invited into the play area, and is going to join the club.

This has to be almost mind blowing for him. His last girlfriend wasn’t much interested in sex and it was sometime after six weeks of dating that they first had sex. I can’t imagine going without sex for six weeks and would have dropped her after two or three dates unless there were extenuating circumstances. Yet despite this slow start and continued lack of interest he dated her for about two and half years.

We are looking forward to a more complete report and Jo is going to come up with a “system” such that they can avoid seeing each other having sex when at the club at the same time.

On Wednesday evening Jo and I went to Club Topaz to check out their middle of the week party. We hadn’t received any email or other advertisement from them about Wednesday parties but it was listed on their calendar. I wanted to check them out and see what they were like on a Wednesday but Jo wasn’t very enthusiastic. We decided to go then if it looked like a dud we would instead go to Club Pyrite.

There were eight cars in the Club Topaz parking lot and only six people in the social area all around one table. We hopped back in the car and went to Club Pyrite.

It was spin the bottle night which is probably the best social interaction activity they have for their various Wednesday parties. We arrived rather late, after dinner and just in time for Spin the Bottle. I went to the area first and chatted with the game organizer a while while waiting for others to show up. The club is shutting down in a few months and I asked her if she was looking for a new job yet. She is considering getting some training as a dominatrix and doing that professionally. It’s certainly not a service I would consider using but it was an interesting conversation.

Martha and Sean sat next to me and Martha was particularly friendly. She gave me a big kiss and did a lot of touching even before the game started. She asked if Jo was going to join in and I didn’t know for certain. She ultimately did but had a chair nearly half way around the circle from us. Martha insisted she sit next between Sean and her so Jo moved over. There was a great deal of touching and talking between the tree of them. I got my share of touching from Martha during the game when it was over and I was halfway expecting we would all go to the play area together. I asked Jo if she was okay with that and she said yes but Sean and Martha had made it clear they were interested in her and didn’t mention me as part of their intentions.

Jo and I ended up going to the play area by ourselves and found a public area next to Janice and some new guy. Shortly after arriving I left to use the bathroom and when I came back Jo was busy giving her attention to Janice’s breasts while Janice continued to have intercourse with the other guy.

After coming back from the bathroom Jo returned her attention to me and we had sex next to Janice and her companion. There was essentially no more interaction between us and the other couple and after our sex was complete we cuddled for a while, took a quick tour of the play area, groped Tammy’s new breasts (with her consent) for a bit as we walked by her and her playmates, and then went home.

I went out of state to visit my daughter this weekend for a few days and Jo stayed home. She had planned to go to a night club with her best friend but the friend canceled. We sort of expect this would happen and I had told her she could probably get together with Mick and Michelle or go to one of the sex clubs. She was hesitant and just before I left on Friday asked if I was really okay with it. I assured her I was and she sent messages to Mick and Michelle and also Calvin and Jerri via the Swing Lifestyle website. She asked if they were going to Club Topaz on Saturday night.

Calvin and Jerri got back to her and said they were out of town until Sunday but invited her to their place to watch the football game on TV. I knew it would be more than that if she went but she wasn’t entirely convinced she would play with them.

Saturday night she went to Club Pyrite, “just for drinks and dinner”. About 10:20 she sent me a text message:

Leaving the club. Had a much better time that I expected. I played with Norman.

I replied with a smiley face and told her:

Glad you had a good time.

She said:

You are so wonderful to be fine with all this. I wish I was going home to cuddle with you in bed.

I really wanted to be there with her too. I did the next best thing I could and masturbated while thinking of her having sex with Norman. And I did it again the next morning.

The next day before she was scheduled to leave for her visit with Calvin and Jerri we had the following text message conversation:

Jo: Looking forward to playing with Calvin and Jerri?

Jo: I’m sort of not expecting playing. I guess it’s possible, and I think it would be fun if it happens. Last night I really expected nothing and it took my brain a little while to think about it and process it.

Bob: Did you play with anyone else besides Norman?

Talk to anyone interesting?

I expect they will be interested in playing.

Jo: Just Norman. It was a lot of people I have never seen. And a few men talked to me. I got there about 8:05 and had a drink while everyone finished dinner (I saw zero prospects) danced with Hank and Janice. Norman and I went into the play area about 8:55 then he was volunteering at 10 and I didn’t want a late night anyway.

Bob: Thanks for the details.

Jo: Any second thoughts from you about me going to Calvin and Jerri’s?

Bob: Nope.

Just wish I could go with you.

Jo: I wish you could come with me too!

At 5:00 PM we had another text message conversation:

Jo: After the game we played. It started as me and Calvin, then Jerri joined in. We only had about 45 minutes and I’m headed home for dinner with my son.

Bob: Good time?

Jo: Yes. Just a teeny bit awkward here and there, but fun.

Bob: Jerri was okay with things?

Glad you had fun.

Jo: Yes, she was completely ok. He said he asked ahead of time, and we asked twice there.

Bob: Good.

I’m looking forward to hearing all the details.

Then later:

I’m home and fixing dinner. What I think is interesting is that Norman, and Calvin and Jerri wanted me to spend the night with them. There’s only one person I know of that I want to spend that much time with and it’s you!

When I went to bed I fantasized about being with her and having sex with her as I masturbated and then imagined myself cuddled up to her so I could get to sleep.

I’m more than ready to go home now.

Last Wednesday we went to Club Pyrite.

I had hoped to get a massage from Gretchen. The sign up sheet was out and I put my name on it. But when I didn’t see her there for dinner and when it became close to the time for the massage I asked at the desk about her. They called and reported back that she wasn’t coming after all and that furthermore she may never be at the club again. Apparently someone “reported her” to her employer about working at the club. I don’t know what the complete story is but that was a pretty messed up thing to do. She never mixed sex with her work and in fact I she has been monogamous with her boyfriend for many months. I don’t really understand why an employer would have a legitimate issue with this. This was very disappointing to me. We were rather close friends and this makes it unlikely we will see each other.

We saw and talked to Sherman and Marylyn who we hadn’t seen in a quite a while. Sherman used to be the chef at the club and play with Marylyn after he finished with dinner. He was married but I think we only saw his wife once in the many months we saw him there. Marylyn and he became a couple and only played with each other at the club and we knew they were meeting outside the club as well. We wonder what the story is with his wife but never ask. It was nice to get caught up on things with them.

We had dinner and had no interest in anyone we saw there. We went into the play area and watched others, including Sherman and Marylyn, as we played with each other.